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171 Dirty Questions to Ask A Guy: Sexual Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend!

Looking for the best dirty questions to ask a guy? If you are curious to find out some dirty questions to ask, here you’ll find 171 hot, dirty, freaky and flirty questions to ask your boyfriend or guy crush!

The amount of people that Google this question is actually insane, so don’t feel embarrassed or shy or panic about asking your crush, partner or boyfriend dirty questions!

Sometimes you need to ask sexual questions to get to know someone better, see if they could be compatible for you, or get them in the mood! Or sometimes you’re just wanting to lighten the tone and have a little fun! 

Sometimes it’s hard to think of the right dirty questions that are appropriate, so here is the ultimate list of best dirty questions to ask a guy – whether it is your crush, boyfriend, partner, husband or even friend!

You’ll find the right one – whether you are texting or whether you are asking your crush/boyfriend face to face to make things more spicy, or whether you’re just looking for some funny dirty questions to ask your guy.


Best Dirty Questions To Ask A Guy

 1. What is your opinion on a girl making the first move?

2. Quickie or marathon session?

3. Do you ever read erotic fiction?

4. Do you prefer eye contact or not?

5. What’s a surefire way to turn you on?

6. Do you like dirty talk?

7. What color underwear do you like the most on me?

8. Do you watch p*rn?

9. Have you ever had a dream about me?

10. If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, what would you look at first?

11. If you could choose anything on my body to see right now what would it be?

12. Do you prefer lights on or lights off?

13. Have you ever had back door fun?

14. What’s your favorite position for us?

15. Do you like playing rough?

16. Have you ever been caught while making out?

17. What’s your opinion on sex before marriage?


Sexy Questions To Ask A Guy

18. How many girls have you been with, before me?

19. Are you a good kisser?

20. Would you ever shower with me?

21. What physical features are you attracted to the most in women?

22. What’s your type?

23. Have you ever stared at my butt or chest?

24. Do you like adult movies?

25. What is the first feature you noticed of mine?

26. Does your little soldier have a name?

27. How many times do you like to have sex per week?

28. What outfits turn you on the most that women wear?

29. What’s your biggest turn on?

30. What’s your biggest turn off?

31. How many girls have you been with?

32. What do you look for in a girl?

33. What gets you in the mood?


Spicy Questions To Ask A Guy / Spicy Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend 

34. Do you have any fetishes? 

35. Do you consider yourself more sexy or brainy?

36. Do you think there’s a difference between having sex and making love?

37. Have you ever thought about me sexually?

38. What is your favorite place to be massaged?

39. What is your sexy scene from a movie?

40. Do you want to do it in a public place?

41. Have you ever had a one-night stand?

42. Have you ever done it outside?

43. Have you ever tried to picture me naked?

44. Are you shy in the bedroom?

45. Could you guess my favorite part of your body?

46. Do you prefer to give or receive?

47. When do you feel the most passionate?

48. What’s one thing you want me to do that I have not yet- In the bedroom?

49. What’s your ideal date night?

50. What do you think about toys in the bedroom?

51. Would you rather see me in lingerie or nothing at all?

52.  What do you think about friends with benefits?

53. What is the wildest thing you’ve done sexually?

54. Making-out burns calories – want to help me exercise?

55. Where is your favorite making-out spot?


Dirty Questions To Ask A Guy To Make Him Laugh 

56. What is your most embarrassing make-out memory?

57. If you could choose one famous person to have sex with, who would it be any why?

58. Did your parents ever give you the ‘birds and the bees’ talk?

59. What is the craziest thing you have ever done when banging someone?

60. Did you ever fancy one of your teachers?

61. Have you ever slept with someone, then woke up wishing you never have?

62. Have you ever tried edible underwear?

63. Is laughing in the bedroom okay, or it has to be serious?


Best Dirty Questions To Ask A Guy Over Text
– Naughty Questions To Ask A Boyfriend Over Text!

Just because you’re not with a guy doesn’t mean he doesn’t have to stop thinking about you! Especially at the beginning stages of a relationship, or when you are just getting to know a guy, sexting can be exciting for both guys and girls.

Here are some dirty questions to ask a guy over text message if you fancy flirting with him, having some fun and getting to know him more. 

Pick your favourite question, send him a message and see what his response is!

64. How fast can you get here?

65. Do you want to know what I’m wearing?

66. If I was in your room right now, what would you want to do to me?

67. What are you best at in bed?

68. Do I make you nervous?

69. Do you like sexting?


Best Flirty & Fun Dirty Questions To Ask Your Crush

Want to flirt with a guy and looking for some fun questions to ask your crush? Or maybe you want to have some fun asking your boyfriend some flirty dirty questions to reignite the flame and get him in the mood.

Check out these hot and freaky questions and see which one you want to ask your crush, partner or boyfriend!

70. What’s the dirtiest thing you’ve thought about me?

71. What do you want me to wear right now?

72. How many positions do you think you’ve tried?

73. How important do you think sex in a relationship is?

74. Which body part are you most proud of?

75. What type of girl are you attracted to? 

76. Have you ever just wanted to tear my clothes off?

77. What part of your body do you enjoy the most on a woman?

78. If you had to choose your least attractive feature of mine what would it be?

79. Would you like to take a long shower together?

80. How can I drive you crazy with my body?

81. What is your favorite type of lingerie?

82. What is the best kiss you have ever had?

83. Are you a yoga pants guy or a dresses guy?

84. What would you do if I wanted you right now?

85. What is your opinion on love bites, do you want to give me any?

86. Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

87. Rough or romantic?

88. Who is your celebrity crush? 

89. What do you think of open relationships?

90. Do you think about me when we are not together?


Freaky Questions To Ask Your Crush

91. White t-shirt or black lace?

92. Have you ever licked a girl’s front and back areas? (Insert more appropriate words if you wish!)

93. Do you like to do doggy?

94. Have you ever bragged to your friends about me?

95. Are you a virgin?

96. Do you want me to ride you like a cowgirl?

97. Boobs or butt – what do you prefer?

98. What would you do if you could do anything with me?

99. How old were you when you first had sex?

100. What is your dirtiest fantasy?

101. Do you like it when someone pulls your hair?

102. How many ex’s numbers are still in your phone?

103. Do you think you could take off my underwear with no hands?

104. Would you ever sleep with your ex’s best friend?

105. Would you ever sleep with your best friend’s ex?

106. What’s the longest you’ve gone without doing it?

107. What’s the most number of times you’ve done it in a row?

108. Do you prefer it from the front or from behind?

109. What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever done it?

110. What do you wear to bed when you are in the mood?

111. Where is the naughtiest place you have done it?

112. Are you more horny in the morning or at night time?

113. Is there anything you’re afraid of in the bedroom?

114. Has someone ever given you a bj whilst you were in the shower together? 

115. When did you lose your virginity?

116. Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?

117. Do you think you know what women want?


Sexy Questions To Ask Your Crush 

118. Do you prefer long hair or short hair?

119. When was the last time you have a dirty dream? 

120. Have you ever been in a friend with benefits situation?

121. What’s your perfect scenario of foreplay?

122. Where is a place you’d really like to have sex?

123. Do you think you are romantic?

124. Are you thinking about me? Because I am thinking about you.

125. What is your favorite sex position?

126. How do you want me to touch you? Describe it.

127. Do you want to play dirty truth or dare?

128. If you could choose what I was wearing, what would it be?

129. If you could only touch me in one place, where would it be?

130. Do you like 4play? 

131. Short skirt or tight jeans?

132. What is a sex position you have never tried, but would love to try? 

133. How high is your sex drive? 

134. What’s one public place where you would want to do it?

135. What’s the sexiest thing someone could say to you in bed? 

136. What times of day do you think about me?

137. Do you like experimenting with different positions, which is your favorite?

138. Do you prefer kissing or cuddling?


Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

139. Would you ever surprise me with lingerie?

140. What do my lips taste like?

141. Do you like going down on me?

142. Which part of my body would you like me to get a tattoo on?

143. How often would you like us to be having sex?

144. If I told you I wanted to have sex right now, what would you do? 

145. What do I do that makes you smile?

146. I ask you to dress me for our date night – which outfit of mine would you pick?

147. What is your favorite part of my body?

148. How does it feel when we make out?


Sexual questions to ask your boyfriend /  Sexy Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

149. Do you get jealous when other guys look at me?

150. Who is your dream girl if you couldn’t have me?

151. If you could describe my body in 3 words how would you describe it?

152. Do you like me being possessive over you? 

153. What body part do you like me to touch the most?

154. What would you say or do if I sent you a dirty picture of me?

155. I come home from work stressed, how do you relax me?

156. Do you like massages?

157. When you first met me was it love at first sight?

158. When do I look most beautiful to you?

159. Do you like it when I make the first move (in bed)?

160. What do you think about dirty talk over FaceTime or over the phone?


Kinky questions to ask your boyfriend

Looking for some flirty questions to ask your crush, your boyfriend or the guy you like?

These dirty questions are sure to get him thinking about you and get him in the mood. Pick which one of the freaky questions below you want to ask your crush!

161. Is there a sexy scene from a movie that you want to recreate with me?

162. What is the dirtiest thing you ever thought about me?

163. Have you ever wanted to tear my clothes off?

164. Do you like to talk dirty?

165. How does it feel when I go down on you?

166. What’s the best sex that you’ve ever had?

167. What is the weirdest thing you have dreamt about doing with a girl?

168. Are there any games you like to play in the bedroom?

169. Is it hot in here or is it just you?

170. What is the easiest way to make you smile?

171. Have you ever played strip poker?


Summary Of Dirty Questions To Ask A Guy

You’ve reached the end of the article about dirty questions to ask a guy! I hope you found something that you were looking for! 

A couple of questions for you – do you prefer asking romantic or dirty questions to your crush or boyfriend? Do you think they help strengthen the relationship, or do you like to ask them just for a bit of fun?

Let me know in the comments below or send me a message, you guys know I love to hear from you!

Of course, only ask questions you are comfortable asking! Some girls may find it is easier to ask a guy dirty questions by text message or WhatsApp first, and some prefer to just ask them directly to their face!

If you are in a long distance relationship then by video or text message may sometimes be the only option! Just do whatever works for you!

Safe Sexting

Remember it is really not wise to send nude photos of yourself to a guy, or even in your underwear ESPECIALLY if your face is visible or you can be identified. 

Some guys are very cruel and sell these photos, send them to all their friends, or even put them on the internet. This could cause you a lot of heartache and embarrassment, and it could even really affect your life years later. 

There have been many stories of people going for job interviews and the interviewers did a quick Google of them (like most employers do these days), found inappropriate photos and therefore didn’t hire the person.

Or people have even lost their current jobs as the photos got discovered. 

Also imagine the sadness and anger your parents would feel if they discovered someone had uploaded inappropriate photos of their daughter onto the internet. 

Please practice safe sexting if you plan to do so, and never make yourself identifiable unless it is a partner that you completely trust 100%. 

But even then, phones get hacked and stolen, and people break up, so it is really advisable not to do it.

Most guys in fact will respect you more if you don’t send naughty photos and nudes. They would much rather wait and see it in real life. 

Please be smart. Once a message has been sent, you can’t take it back. And you don’t have control over what the receiver does with your photo.

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Tara Potts

Saturday 19th of March 2022

Thank you so much for this!